Some people like big
families, while others think that small families are better.
As someone has rightly said: "The
family is the nucleus of civilization". A person's upbringing and
education starts in his or her family and it is in the family that values,
norms and ideas are communicated from generation to generation. Families can be
big and small. Some families consist of parents and their only child. But there
are families where several generations live together and where there are a lot
In my opinion, big families are better
than small ones. Firstly, when there are two or more children in the family,
they are used to helping each other and sharing responsibilities. They learn to
live in a "community" where every member is equal. Secondly, when a
child has brothers and sisters, he or she is not likely to become egoistic because
parents share their love and attention between all their children. And finally,
it is difficult to feel lonely when one has a big family.
However, some people say that they would
prefer to have a small family First and foremost, one needs less money to support
a small family. Parents who have only one child don't have to work much and
therefore they can spend more time with their son or daughter. Besides, when
several generations live together, there is often misunderstanding between
older and younger people because of their different experiences, opinions and
To conclude, it does not matter if the
family is big or small. The most important thing is that it should be happy and
united. That is why it is essential to maintain harmony and the atmosphere of
love, mutual respect and understanding in the family.
Nowadays quite a lot
of young people choose to conclude marriage contract. Others say that it is an
absolutely useless thing.
Unfortunately, nowadays a lot of
marriages break up. For many men and women divorce turns into a nightmare
because it is often connected with quarrels and partition of property.
Sometimes a wife and a husband can become real enemies arguing about who will
take the flat or the car after their separation. If they have small children,
everything becomes even more complicated and painful.
Personally, I am convinced that it is
wise of young people to conclude marriage contract. Marriage contract is a
mutual consent about mutual rights and duties before marriage, in marriage and
after it. The contract takes effect on the date of the civil marriage ceremony.
It regulates property relationship between spouses and determines their rights
and duties. What is more, marriage contract can determine property rights and
duties of spouses as parents. It is very convenient that spouses can change
their marriage contract during their marriage. They also have the right to
However, some people say that a person
who concludes marriage contract shows that he or she does not trust his or her
spouse. And if there is no trust in the family, it is likely to break up.
Besides, when young people are going to get married, they should think about
love, not money. But I still believe that both men and women should be
responsible and they should think about their future.
To conclude, it's up to you to decide
whether to conclude marriage contract or not. But in my opinion, it makes
people's lives easier in case of divorce and helps avoid quarrels.
In modern society
old people and their grandchildren usually live separately and don't communicate
too much. Some people say that it is quite natural, while others think that the
old and the young should spend more time together.
Nowadays there are few families where
several generations live under the same roof. Children and their grandparents
don't see very much of each other. But is it good or bad for both the old and
Personally, I think that children and
their grandparents should spend more time together. Children always need much
attention, but their parents usually work too much. But pensioners always have
time for kids. Old people feel useful and needed when they have somebody to
take care of. They also become more active and more interested in life and
their physical and psychological health improves. What is more, grandparents
can pass their knowledge, skills and experience to kids. At the same time the
young can show the old how to use a mobile phone or a PC.
But unfortunately, there is less and
less contact between children and their grandparents nowadays. Some families
live in small flats where there is no room for grandparents. Other families
leave for big cities and have neither time nor opportunity to visit their
ageing relatives. As a result, many old people have no contact with children
and feel lonely and depressed. Children who are separated from their
grandparents also suffer from lack of attention, love and support. So I think
parents should do their best to bring the old and the young together.
To conclude, the advantages are enormous
for both the old and the young. If grandparents and children spend more time
together, they will learn to understand and respect each other; consequently,
there will be less conflict in society. Besides, there will be fewer lonely old
people and more happy kids.
Nowadays a lot of
people adopt children from overseas. Others are sure that there are many
children who need parents in our country.
A typical family usually consists of a
couple with their children. However, some people can't have their own children
for different reasons and they choose to build a family through adoptions. In
recent decades international adoptions have become increasingly popular.
Nowadays the growing number of men and
women adopt children from foreign countries including Third World countries.
Every time a Hollywood celebrity adopts a child from overseas, more and more
ordinary people want to follow his or her example. To my mind, it is not right
to adopt children from abroad only because it is fashionable and because other
people say that it is good.
On the other hand, many people believe
that adopting children from foreign countries has a number of advantages.
Firstly, children's biological parents will hardly interfere in their lives.
Secondly, people think that international adoptions help build bridges between
communities and create a culturally diverse society. Personally, I think that
it is not wise to adopt children from foreign countries when there are
thousands of orphans in our country. They also need loving families and
In general, it is a good deed to adopt a
child either from abroad or from your own country. Anyway, people must be
responsible and they must take care of children who need their love and
Some parents think
that young people would better live independently, while others believe that it
may spoil the relationships between children and parents.
All parents dream of raising responsible
and self-reliant children. But when their nice little kids grow older and
demand independence, most parents don't know what to do. Moms and Dads can't
stop wondering if they should let their sons and daughters live independently
or if young people would better live with them.
To my mind, young people should live on
their own. I believe that children's job is to try their wings and parents' job
is to let them fly away. For example, in the USA young people usually move out
of their parents' house at the age of 18. A grown-up person who is still living
with his or her parents may be considered "immature", or "tied
to the mother's apron strings". Young people who live far from their
parents and try to earn their living are usually more responsible and
Some Moms and Dads want their children
to be independent so much, that they stop influencing their lives. As a
result, young people completely forget about their parents' existence and visit
them only once or twice a year at the best. Some parents feel unhappy and
lonely because they have to live in an old people's home where they miss their
children and grandchildren. I strongly feel that parents ought to love, protect
and guide their children in order to avoid such a sad situation. And children
ought to take care of their aging parents in their turn.
To conclude, I believe that lifelong
bonds between parents and their children are extremely important. No matter how
old you are or where you live, you must never forget about your parents.
Some parents think
that if their children are disobedient, they should be stricter with them. Others
say that love and understanding will help solve the problem.
Have you ever met an ideal child? I
don't think so. Small children are very active, inquisitive and sometimes
naughty. There are kids whose behaviour can be called notorious and unbearable.
They constantly give a headache to their parents and teachers. Why does it
happen and what should parents do in such a situation?
Personally, I think that if parents want
their sons and daughters to be cheerful, self-confident and socially
successful, they must be loving, caring and attentive to their children's
wishes and needs. Grown-ups ought to show warmth and affection towards their
children. Of course, sometimes parents should be strict, but they must always
remain fair. They should use punishment and praise appropriately. I love and
respect my parents because they prefer discussions and explanations and value
However, some Moms and Dads are still
convinced that if they spare the rod, they will certainly spoil the child.
They think that if they punish their children, their sons and daughters will
grow into well-behaved adults. Such parents choose to be very strict with their
offspring. As a result, adults achieve the contrary effect: their son or
daughter becomes estranged and feels rejected. I believe that pressure and fear
are the worst methods of upbringing.
To conclude, it is parents' duty to make their child happy. Many
psychologists say that there are no problem children, there are only problem
parents. Mothers and fathers should be wise, loving, considerate and
consistent. As soon as children feel that their parents love, understand and
support them, they will have a desire to please them and to improve their